by Steven M. Smith
Virginia Satir developed this method for discovering a group’s temperature — what we in technology often call the system’s state.
A facilitator leads the discovery. He or she keeps the group focused on each agenda item; works with the group members to help them communicate information congruently; and publicly displays each contribution so the group can [...]
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by Steven M. Smith
Ban whining. It’s destructive communication inside organizations.
Why is whining destructive? How can a whiny complaint be transformed into a constructive, actionable proposal?
You ask Anthony, who reports to you, “How are things going?”
Anthony unloads on you like a dump truck unloading fertilizer, “I’m sick and tired of the mandatory meetings that your management is forcing me [...]
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